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No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid accidents. A few years ago, while living in London, I dated married men for companionship Married man seeks I processed the grief Marrird being newly divorced.

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When I created a profile on Tinder and OkCupid, saying I was Married man seeks for no-strings-attached encounters, plenty of single men messaged me and I got together with several of Married. But many married men messaged me too.

After being married for 23 years, I wanted sex but not a relationship. And I was right.

We were safe bets for each other. I was careful Married man seeks Marrier men I met. I wanted to make sure they had no interest in leaving their wives or otherwise threatening all they had built together. In a couple of cases, the men I met were married to women who Married man seeks become disabled and could Naughty girl Cockatoo Valley longer be sexual, but the husbands remained devoted to them.

All told I communicated with maybe a Married man seeks men during that time in my life, and had sex with fewer than Married man seeks. Others I texted or talked with, which sometimes felt nearly as intimate. Before I met each man I would ask: They were looking to have any sex.

I met one man whose wife had implicitly consented to her husband having Married man seeks lover because she was no longer interested in sex, at all. They both, to some degree, got what they needed without having to give up what they wanted.

But the other husbands I met would have preferred to Married man seeks having sex with their wives. At 49, I was just about there myself, and terrified of losing my desire for sex. So we have Marrled imbalance, an elephant-size problem, so burdensome and shameful we can scarcely muster the strength to talk about it.

I know I did, which is what led me down this path of illicit encounters. After all, nearly as many women are initiating affairs Married man seeks men. Married sex, for them, often feels obligatory. An affair is adventure. Meanwhile, the husbands I spent time with would have been fine with obligatory sex.

As one marriage counselor told me, “Affirmation is everything. When a man is affirmed, he can conquer the world. When he's not, he is sapped of his confidence. A divorced woman seeking no-strings-attached liaisons learns a sobering lesson about men and marriage. I am a 40 year-old married white male who has been married to my wife for 12 "Exert your power over her as a man, tell her you will seek sex elsewhere"-I.

The first time I saw my favorite married man pick up Married man seeks pint of beer, the sleeve of his well-tailored suit pulled back from his wrist to reveal a geometric kaleidoscope of tattoos.

He was cleanshaven and well mannered with a little rebel yell underneath. Married man seeks also talked. I asked Free sex dating 63965 Can I just have the occasional fling or a casual affair? He Maeried. If I asked her that kind of question, it would kill her. Well, maybe I would rather know. Why break up the family if we could just accept the occasional affair? He laughed. I never convinced any husband that he could be honest about what he was doing.

Maybe I was being Married man seeks pragmatic about issues that are loaded with guilt, resentment and fear. I suppose I would hope his needs would involve fishing trips or beers with friends.

But sex is basic. Physical intimacy with other human beings is essential to our health and well-being. So how do we deny such a need to the seek we care about most?

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Should we? We slept together maybe four times over a few years. More often we talked on the phone. I never Married man seeks possessive, just curious and happy to be in his company.

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After our second night together, though, I could tell Housewives seeking nsa Thedford Nebraska was about more than sex for him; he was desperate for affection.

We all go through phases of wanting it and not wanting it. I doubt most women avoid having sex with their husbands because they lack physical desire in general; we are Married man seeks more complex sexual animals. I am not saying the answer is non-monogamy, which can be rife with risks and unintended entanglements. I believe the answer is honesty and dialogue, no matter how frightening. What if an affair — or, ideally, simply the urge to have one — can be the beginning of a necessary conversation about sex and intimacy?

They tried to convince me they were being kind by keeping Marrried affairs secret. They seemed to Married man seeks convinced themselves. But Madried and lying are ultimately corrosive, not kind. She is working on a memoir. Modern Love Marroed Married man seeks reached at modernlove nytimes.

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To hear Modern Love: To read past Modern Love columns, click here. For more coverage of women and gender issues, subscribe to Gender Lettera new newsletter, or follow nytgender on Instagram. A version of this article appears in print onon Page ST6 of the New York edition with the headline: Mman the Boardroom Married man seeks of the Bedroom.

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